Don't let the world change your smile, let your smile change the world.
In 2014, I don't know about you, but I was feeling 22. However, far from the carefree attitude of Taylor Swift, I had a lot on my mind that year as it was the year of my jaw surgery, something that was never far from the front of my mind. At the same time, I was busy with my third year of Uni, working as the CEO of Cleft NZ, working in tech support at TalkLink, and doing my best to be a functional adult in the flatting world.
“Congratulations you have a boy! He has a bit of a harelip, but looks otherwise healthy.” I can’t describe the shock that I felt then. This wasn’t how it was meant to be. None of the books or antenatal classes prepared us for this. My head was in a spin wondering what this meant for our future and our baby’s future. I knew what a 'harelip' was, but I’d never known anyone with the condition.
Last week marked the one year anniversary of my arrival to the UK. Now, one year on, I reflect back on the last 12 months living and working in London.
This editorial was originally broadcast on Plains FM at 12:34pm on Tuesday 19 March 2019.
8 years on, and the 22nd of Feb is still a tough one.
Important note: This article relates to my personal involvement with the project in Australia in early 2018. It does not relate to any involvement by any of my past or present employers located in other countries.
Every day is a new day, let's do our best not to tar today with yesterday's brush!
Having been born with a visual difference has made me appreciate beauty in its many forms, and the fact that beauty is everywhere we look, we simply need only to open our eyes to it, and expand our minds beyond traditional stereotyped concepts of beauty. True beauty is all around, it’s the person across from you on the morning tube who catches your gaze and flashes you a smile, it’s your friend who spots you coming towards them and beams a welcoming grin, it’s your workmate smiling and greeting you on a Monday morning, it’s a family member’s open arms after a long journey home. I hope that rather than aspire to be like somebody else, we see our own beauty in the mirror and feel encouraged to embrace being ourselves because no-one else can do you quite like you.
Listen in on demand as Kenny, Iona and Jon speak with BBC Radio Scotland's John Beattie about growing up with Cleft Lip and Palate, and the Adult Services Project. Source: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b0b7mjqm
In this video from CLAPA, Kenny looks back on the first 100 days of the Cleft Adult Services Project. Find more information on the project at http://www.clapa.com/adultservicesproject.
Cleft Awareness Week ran from the 5th-13th of May. Each day during Cleft Awareness Week, I pulled out a post, interview or presentation about cleft lip and palate to share - whatever your background, I hope that you found it interesting, and most importantly, that you learned something about the UK and NZ's most common... Continue Reading →
Thank you to everyone who joined us for the live presentation on Thursday 26 April - it was a pleasure to speak to you all. Thank you also to Belinda from CleftPALS for organising this opportunity. If you would like to watch the video again, you can now find this in the main part of... Continue Reading →
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